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The color black relates to the hidden, the secretive and the unknown, and as a result it creates an air of mystery. It keeps things bottled up inside, hidden from the world.
In color psychology this color gives protection from external emotional stress. It creates a barrier between itself and the outside world, providing comfort while protecting its emotions and feelings, and hiding its vulnerabilities, insecurities and lack of self confidence.
Black is the absorption of all color and the absence of light. Black hides, while white brings to light. What black covers, white uncovers. We all use black at various times to hide from the world around us in one way or another. Some of us use it to hide our weight; others among us use it to hide our feelings, our fears or our insecurities.
In color psychology, black means power and control, hanging on to information and things rather than giving out to others.
Black is intimidating, unfriendly and unapproachable because of the power it exudes. It can prevent two-way communication because of its intimidation. The salesman wearing all black will make a lot of sales, but no friends! It radiates authority, but creates fear in the process.
Black implies self-control and discipline, independence and a strong will, and giving an impression of authority and power.
Black absorbs negative energy. It is useful to carry something black with you to protect you from harm and negativity when traveling or when going about your usual daily activities outside your home.
People who like black may be conventional, conservative and serious, or they may think of themselves as being sophisticated or very dignified.
The color black is often seen as a color of sophistication, as in ‘the little black dress’, or ‘the black tie event’. Affluent and success orientated women often choose black as it can give an impression of elegance, sophistication and confidence.
Black is often associated with sexiness and seduction, as in the temptress in sexy black lingerie creating an air of mystery and intrigue. It can also imply submission to another (including a sexual partner), similar to the priest wearing black robes in submission to God.
Black is the end, but the end always implies a new beginning. When the light appears, black becomes white, the color of new beginnings.
Teenagers often have a psychological need to wear black during the stage of transition from the innocence of childhood to the sophistication of adulthood. It signifies the ending of one part of their life and the beginning of another, allowing them to hide from the world while they discover their own unique identity. It is important they go through this stage but a worry when it continues on into adult years if they continue to wear black to the exclusion of other colors.
Too much black can cause depression and mood swings and create a negative environment. Combined with white only, it can create an argumentative atmosphere. It is best to use some color with black to lighten and brighten its energy.
Ehm ehm.. ga tau knp mlm ini gw ngrasa kgn keluarga gue!
Dikit flashback.. Kalo gw inget2 kadang gue dlu suka ngiri sama keluarga tmn2 gue yg slalu ngumpul, ktawa2 n ya gtu deh..
Beda sama kluarga gw yg cuek, jarang bicara panjang X lebar X tinggi = luas! weeewwww… n ga pduli gw mau lakuin apa, sama siapa, dimana, n bla bla bla…
Lucu n aneh sih kalo dipikir2 dr prtma gw dilahirkan ke dunia yg abstrak tp indah ini sampe sekarang, blum prnah keluarga gw ngucapin slamat ulang tahun ke gw #jreng n lbih aneh lg kalo gw mau pergi jauh kmana2pun cuma bilang IYA tanpa ekspresi yg kyk ini -> T.T dan ini -> :’) .
Tp itulah yg pling brharga yg diajarin keluarga gw.. keluarga gw tuh keluarga anti basa basi.. yg ngebebasin gw ber’ekspresi, yg bs bikin gw cari jati diri gw sendiri, yg ngajarin kalo d dunia ini ga ada sesuatu yg spesial, yg nuntun gw cari sesuatu yg baik tanpa paksaan„ n yg bs bikin gw terbiasa ga dipeduli’in, Ngajarin kalo hidup itu ga perlu cari belas kasih, hmmm yg pasti ngajarin gw ngehadapin rasa takut buat lakuin apa aja.. ngajarin kalo gw jg ga perlu dngerin omongan org.. bs hidup cuek„ ga banyak ngeluh.. hmm..
Yaa gitu lah kira2 keunikan keluarga tercinta gw :)
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"petualangan membuat hidup kita menjadi selaras dengan alam. Kita dapat melihat langsung dan merasakan kebesaran Tuhan, yang akhirnya akan membuat kita sadar, betapa kecilnya kita sebagai manusia. Kesadaran ini membuat kita selalu bersyukur"
Suatu sore menjelang matahari terbenam ada seorang lelaki tua berjalan di pinggir pantai sambil menikmati angin laut dan desiran ombak yg tenang. Di kejauhan ia melihat seorang anak sedang memungut bintang laut yg terdampar & melemparkannya lagi ke tengah laut. Lelaki tua itu pun segera menghampiri anak itu & bertanya “Mengapa kamu mengumpulkan dan melemparkan kembali bintang laut itu ke dalam air?” “Karena bila bintang laut ini dibiarkan hingga matahari pagi terbit, bintang laut yg terdampar ini akan mati kekeringan.” Jawab anak itu. “Tepi pantai ini sangat luas Nak, dan lihatlah begitu banyak bintang laut yg terdampar disini. Aku ragu apakah usahamu itu sungguh mempunyai arti yg besar.” Terka lelaki tua. Anak itu mulai memandang bintang laut yg ada ditangannya tanpa berkata sepatah katapun. Setelah agak lama memandang bintang laut itu, lalu ia berkata “Saya yakin usahaku sungguh memiliki arti yg besar meskipun tidak untuk semua bintang laut yg terdampar tapi setidaknya bagi yg satu ini.” Lalu ia melemparkannya ke tengah laut lagi agar bintang laut itu selamat & hidup.. Berbuatlah baik meskipun sekecil apapun namun dampaknya tetap sebuah Kebaikan yg akan bermakna besar….
people think im different, but why? all people do the same, , they breath, eat, sleep just like me!
So why do they think im defferent?
I dont know. But one thing they have to remember.. i’ll always keep on being me!
Display your maturity to your girl by showing her how serious you are with your career, or how well you handle your finances. Women love a confident and clever man.
Women want to feel secure with their man, and once this trust and your faithfulness has been assured, your relationship with one another will reach new heights
Don’t sweat the small stuff! Show her that you have a cool demeanor when dealing with problems and she’ll know that she can always rely on you!
When your girl’s not feeling her best, show her you care by looking after her or simply sending a ‘Get Well Soon’ note. This will reinforce to her that you can also look after her in times of need.
Meet the Parents
Introducing your girl to your parents shows her not only that you’re pretty serious about her, but also that you’re proud of her. It also gives her a good indication of how you get along with your family, a quality that most women find very appealing.
Like with any relationship, absence makes the heart grow fonder! While spending time with your girl is great for your relationship, so too is spending a little time apart just to remind yourselves how much you love being together. So why not hang out with the guys every once in a while?
While you may not need (or want) your girl’s advice all the time, sometimes it’s nice to consult her to make her feel appreciated and wanted. Even if it’s just about a small matter, girls love helping their loved ones out.
You don’t have to be Mr. Serious all the time! Girls love a guy who they can also relax around and laugh with. So be a little silly from time to time and watch her join in on the clowning around.
Nice & Clean
One of the biggest romance killers is when a partner is messy or just plain lazy when it comes to picking up after themselves. So next time you think about leaving your wet towel on the floor, don’t! Every woman loves a man who tries to be neat!
When you’ve had a great night or day out with her, why not let her know? Send a quick text or go that extra step and call her. This allows your relationship to blossom into love through a shared appreciation of the time you spend together.
Eyes Have It
When you’re talking to your girl, she’ll notice how much eye contact you give her, especially as limited contact is a sign that you’re bored or uninterested. So maintain that eye contact and she’ll love staring into your eyes!
One of the most attractive qualities to any woman is when a man shows he’s a true gentleman. Prove to her that chivalry is not dead by opening the door for her or pulling her seat out for her when you dine out.
Plenty of Compliments
Women put a lot of energy into looking good each day, so pay her compliments often to let her know that you notice her effort. Keep it sincere and she’ll love you for it!
Woman love good listeners, so provide a listening ear for your girl so she can rant, explain, or muse and she’ll be super grateful! Remember not to rush her or give unhelpful advice though.